BUILDING A LOVING MARRIAGE: Lessons from the Sunnah

 

The Sunnah of Love: 10 Romantic Lessons from the Life of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ

Looking at Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) life, we find so many narrations of how he treated his wives with love, respect, and kindness. Here are some beautiful sunnahs about how the Prophet expressed his love. Let's learn from him:

1. Express Love:  The Prophet PBUH openly expressed his love for Aisha, once saying she was the most beloved person to him.

2. Feed Her:  Even small acts, like feeding your spouse, can bring blessings.

3. Play with Her:  The Prophet made time to race with Aisha, even with his many responsibilities.

4. Clean Up for Her:  He would freshen up, using miswak, before entering his home.

5. Lean on Her:  The Prophet would rest his head on Aisha’s lap and recite the Qur’an.

6. Bath with Her:  They would share baths, showing tenderness and closeness.

7. Share Interests:  The Prophet joined Aisha in watching others play, showing care for her hobbies.

8. Treat Her Friends Well:  He kept Khadija’s memory alive by honouring her friends.

9. Help with Chores:  The Prophet helped with household tasks, setting an example for all men.

10. Use Beautiful Names:  He called Aisha "Humaira,"  a loving nickname.

These simple acts show that love isn’t about grand gestures but small, meaningful moments.

***How do you show love in your relationship? ❤️

KNOW HER BETTER : 50 Facts About Your Wife

 

Understanding Your Wife: A Sunnah of Compassion

1- Your wife is not perfect, forgive her.

2- Your wife is the bone of your bone, do not break her.

3- Your wife is a gift, appreciate her.

4- Your wife is a rare gem, guide her jealously.

5- Your wife is your best friend, be friendly with her.

6- Your wife is your joy, nourish her.

7- Your wife is to be cherish, be cheerful to her.

8- Your wife is your portion, cherish her.

9- Your wife is not a devil, don’t dump her.

10- Your wife is not only good for sex, carry her along in every issue.

11- Your wife is not your enemy, encourage her.

12- Your wife is not a family material, never commit her unto the hand of your family members.

13- Your wife is not your rival, don’t compete with her.

14- Your wife is a female gender, honor her.

15- Your wife is not common, don’t compare her.

16- Your wife is not a wash hand base, stop abusing her.

17- Your wife is a weaker vessel, handle her with care.

18- Your wife is a beautiful queen, celebrate her.

19- Your wife is not a fighter, don’t fight her.

20- Your wife is not a punching bag, don’t beat her.

21- Your wife is not a game, don’t play her.

22- Your wife need foreplay, don’t rape her.

23- Your wife is a hook, get hook to her.

24- Your wife is all you love, praise her.

25- Your wife is important, honor her.

26- Your wife is what you make her to be, accept her.

27- Your wife is your joy, pursue her.

28- Your wife needs your honor, never embarrass her in the public.

29- Your wife is not a knife, be nice to her.

30- Your wife is a distinct personality, never compare her to any work.

31- Your wife is loyal, don’t be suspicious of her.

32- Your wife is not a fool, listen to her advice.

33- Your wife is not malicious, do not keep malice with her.

34- Your wife is the best friend you can have, befriend her.

35- Your wife is not a napkin, do not misuse her.

36- Your wife is not your house girl, support her in the kitchen.

37- Your wife is passionate, do not by- pass her.

38- Your wife is very important to you, do not abandon her.

39- Your wife is a queen, do not quarrel with her.

40- Your wife is not the only owner of the sit, help her to baby sit.

41- Your wife is reasonable, do not under- rate her.

42- Your wife is your responsibility, provide for her.

43- Your wife is yourself, do not separate her bed.

44- Your wife is number one in your life, priorities her

45- Your wife is your treasure, jealously guide her.

46- Your wife need your help, help her.

47- Your wife need your full attention, do not give it to T.V set.

48- Your wife is valuable, add more value to her.

49- Your wife is your crown, do not abandon her.

50- You will account to Allah SWT about your wife, handle her with care. She may be or seem fragile, but is strong.

May Allah SWT bless our Wives, Mothers, Sisters & Daughters. Aameen