KNOW HER BETTER : 50 Facts About Your Wife

 

Understanding Your Wife: A Sunnah of Compassion

1- Your wife is not perfect, forgive her.

2- Your wife is the bone of your bone, do not break her.

3- Your wife is a gift, appreciate her.

4- Your wife is a rare gem, guide her jealously.

5- Your wife is your best friend, be friendly with her.

6- Your wife is your joy, nourish her.

7- Your wife is to be cherish, be cheerful to her.

8- Your wife is your portion, cherish her.

9- Your wife is not a devil, don’t dump her.

10- Your wife is not only good for sex, carry her along in every issue.

11- Your wife is not your enemy, encourage her.

12- Your wife is not a family material, never commit her unto the hand of your family members.

13- Your wife is not your rival, don’t compete with her.

14- Your wife is a female gender, honor her.

15- Your wife is not common, don’t compare her.

16- Your wife is not a wash hand base, stop abusing her.

17- Your wife is a weaker vessel, handle her with care.

18- Your wife is a beautiful queen, celebrate her.

19- Your wife is not a fighter, don’t fight her.

20- Your wife is not a punching bag, don’t beat her.

21- Your wife is not a game, don’t play her.

22- Your wife need foreplay, don’t rape her.

23- Your wife is a hook, get hook to her.

24- Your wife is all you love, praise her.

25- Your wife is important, honor her.

26- Your wife is what you make her to be, accept her.

27- Your wife is your joy, pursue her.

28- Your wife needs your honor, never embarrass her in the public.

29- Your wife is not a knife, be nice to her.

30- Your wife is a distinct personality, never compare her to any work.

31- Your wife is loyal, don’t be suspicious of her.

32- Your wife is not a fool, listen to her advice.

33- Your wife is not malicious, do not keep malice with her.

34- Your wife is the best friend you can have, befriend her.

35- Your wife is not a napkin, do not misuse her.

36- Your wife is not your house girl, support her in the kitchen.

37- Your wife is passionate, do not by- pass her.

38- Your wife is very important to you, do not abandon her.

39- Your wife is a queen, do not quarrel with her.

40- Your wife is not the only owner of the sit, help her to baby sit.

41- Your wife is reasonable, do not under- rate her.

42- Your wife is your responsibility, provide for her.

43- Your wife is yourself, do not separate her bed.

44- Your wife is number one in your life, priorities her

45- Your wife is your treasure, jealously guide her.

46- Your wife need your help, help her.

47- Your wife need your full attention, do not give it to T.V set.

48- Your wife is valuable, add more value to her.

49- Your wife is your crown, do not abandon her.

50- You will account to Allah SWT about your wife, handle her with care. She may be or seem fragile, but is strong.

May Allah SWT bless our Wives, Mothers, Sisters & Daughters. Aameen

RELATIONSHIP DESTROYERS THAT CAN DESTROY A MARRIAGE

 

28 Marriage Problems That Couples Must Address Before It’s Too Late

Marriage requires love, commitment, understanding, patience, and continuous effort from both spouses. The following are common issues that can weaken and destroy a marriage relationship if they are not addressed:

1.  Laziness kills marriage.

2.  Suspicion kills marriage.

3.  Lack of trust kills marriage.

4.  Lack of mutual respect kills marriage.

5.  Unforgiveness, bitterness, hatred, malice, and anger kill marriage.

6.  Unnecessary arguments kill marriage.

7.  Keeping secrets from your spouse kills marriage.

8.  Every form of infidelity kills marriage — financial, emotional, psychological, physical, material, and other forms of unfaithfulness.

9.  Poor communication kills marriage.

10.  Lies easily kill marriage. Be sincere and honest with your spouse in every aspect.

11.  Relating more with your parents or family members than your spouse kills marriage.

12.  Lack of, inadequate, or unenjoyable intimacy kills marriage.

13.  Nagging kills marriage.

14.  Too much talking and careless speech kill marriage.

15.  Spending little or insufficient time with your spouse kills marriage.

16.  Being too independent-minded kills marriage.

17.  Love for parties, money, impulse buying, excessive spending, and financial indiscipline kill marriage.

18.  Exposing the weaknesses and inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings kills marriage.

19.  Not being steadfast in the spirit and failing to pray together can harm not only your marriage but your spiritual life.

20.  Rejecting correction and refusing constructive advice kills marriage.

21.  Always wearing a sad face, being moody, and creating a negative atmosphere kills marriage.

22.  Extreme or divisive ideologies that undermine partnership in marriage can damage the relationship.

23.  Male chauvinism and unhealthy dominance can damage marriage.

24.  Uncontrolled anger, a hot temperament, and frequent outbursts kill marriage.

25.  Not understanding your role, position, and responsibilities in marriage as established by God can harm the relationship.

26.  Ignoring the spiritual, emotional, financial, and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage.

27.  When a wife feels her position or security is threatened, unhealthy reactions can negatively affect the marriage.

28.  Lack of knowledge of and obedience to the Word of God can weaken and destroy marriage.